Posts Tagged ‘FAIL’

FullSizeRenderIt is 2015, and even with today’s court confirmation of the “affordable care act” provisions… I cannot believe 6 years later LGBT families in many states remain second class citizens in the face-to-face practical settings (like hospitals).

I wrote this (linked) post back in June of 2009 where various media (including Obama) was trying to placate the LGBT population by saying “hey, at least we can give these gay/lesbian folks hospital visits.*”  Way too placatory and seemed mostly disingenuous.

And yet? In 2015? After almost 16 years with my partner? When she had to be taken to the hospital and could not speak for herself? “Hospital visits*” were denied. Here is what happened. Family came to visit from out of state. Half the family went indoors with my partner, and the liquor to flow. Forty-five minutes later I came inside my living-room to see my lady barely unable to open her eyes or hold her head up. 😦 The next several hours are a painful blur. I don’t “make enough” to buy insurance on the marketplace for the “affordable care act” (ironic). And the family member that was drinking with my partner wanted to “take her to the hospital” (but we did not have insurance). So, the best I could do was run out to the garage after these people … at least talked them into putting my wife into MY car. I left without my phone or purse. IMG_3992Once we got to the ER the family members “took over.” I kept calm and told the staff at the intake window… “if I were her husband you would let me in.” This is one of the reason I call the Keystone State “Pennsyltucky.” I then let the front desk staff know that I may need to speak to a nurse to inform the staff what Rx my wife is on so that the hospital staff did not harm her with their treatment.

This was a very painful 3 hours alone for me… out in our car (instead of by her bedside). However, this day moved us to finally make the decisions to pursue and complete all the legal paperwork to ENSURE that NO family member, friend or hospital staff could EVER again keep either of us from the bedside of one another! That day, my wife could not speak for herself. So, the family I thought I could trust … demonstrated all too painfully that they would/could dismiss me. This will NEVER happen again! (Because we have finally taken legal action to notarize all paperwork to protect ourselves from here on out). Some of life’s most painful situations teach us the most valuable lessons and move us to make the most important decisions.


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Super Size FAIL!

We saw this poor McDonald’s Super Size cup laying on its side by the dumpster at an area McDonald’s. Bummer! It was sad, but also funny. So, of course I share it here. 🙂


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Just a little hole-in-the-wall barber shop below that I recently drove past…


Tell me you see what I see. 😀

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Rain Day FAIL!

In a State like Oregon where the generally accepted rumor is that there are more rainy days than sunny days, it struck us as funny that a race day event would be canceled due to rain on a beautiful, blue, cloudless day. Hmm…

We pulled a U-turn to capture this one. 🙂


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city_built_onAh yes, the beauty and serenity of driving through a relatively small town in semi-rural Oregon.

Tall trees,

rolling hills,

rushing rivers…

but wait…

In this town whose motto is “the city that friendliness built” (you can sort of see the motto on the top of the town’s “Welcome” sign there) lives is a resident who apparently didn’t get that memo. 😉


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