Posted in people, politics, Reflections, TV, tagged abdulaziz, arrests, black lives matter, cecil the lion, chatanooga, lafayette, police violence, sandra bland, shootings, terror on July 24, 2015|
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As I head off for another busy day of work, CNN awakened me with another senseless story of loss of life – the tragedy in the Lafayette movie theater.
Again I wonder, how can we as a society get a handle on these types of cruel and needless shootings?
Aurora, Newtown, Charlotte, Tucson, Chattanooga… just to remember so very few of the many shooting tragedies.
Just last night I was wondering why the recent death of Sandra Bland and the apparent police brutality against her for a simple traffic violation was _not_ met with protests and posters demanding justice and peace (as some the most recent tragic deaths as a result of contact with police have been)?
Three days in jail? Suicide? Homicide? This was yet another Black American who was mistreated by police … ending in loss of life.
Yes, Black lives matter!
Yes. _All_ lives matter.
So, how do citizens choose _which_ cities will “burn” for the injustices, and which cities will rather instead simmer in quiet riot? And most of us are shaking our heads wondering… will we see the next situation boil over in America?
Further I continue to wonder… Why has their been more vitriol and outrage over the death of “Cecil the Lion” than any of the humans involved in the above tragedies? Boiling point? I’m at it.
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What another sucky day in paradise for Ali on last night’s installment of The Bachelorette. Well, her first two Tahitian dates with Roberto and Chris had such a sweet quality about them. Each of those two men seem like genuine choices.
Then came time for the ever angst and insecure Frank to have his time. His part of the show did not begin in Tahiti with Ali though. It began with him bemoaning the fact that while he was falling in love with Ali — he felt the resurrection of feelings for his most recent ex-girlfriend (that he had broken up with). Of course this meant that he had to seek out this ex-girlfriend (with the camera crew in tow of course) and share his revelation with her. What person would just open their door to their ex and allow them to prance on inside with a camera crew? Anyway, this was a slow painful exhibition of Frank telling his ex how amazing his exotic dates had been with the amazing Ali. I was thinking “that’s not exactly how to endear yourself to your ex-girlfriend.” Eventually Frank mentioned that he still had feelings for this girl on the sofa. Then, the ex-girlfriend said she had not stopped thinking of Frank since he left and that it was “time for him to come home.” (Probably Frank got tired of living with his parents after he came back from Paris). Then Frank told his soon-to-be-once-again girlfriend that he now had to go to Tahiti and tell Ali he was leaving her for his ex-girlfriend.
Of course we have Chris Harrison playing counselor to Frank (and eventually Ali). Then it is time for Frank to drop the bomb on Ali. Just sad. Why couldn’t this guy simply have called Ali from Chicago and told her that he was staying with his girlfriend? One word. Ratings. Well, two words: drama and ratings.
I would like to think that Ali will end up choosing one of the sweet and seemingly genuine men remaining at that final rose ceremony. But, the checkout aisle tabloids have already been “spoiling” that notion for weeks. What can we expect from “reality TV” made-to-order love stories?
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Posted in behavior, blogging, life, TV, tagged Break-ups, Chris Harrison, Jake and Vienna, Jake Pavelka, Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi, The Bachelorette with Ali, Vienna Girardi on July 7, 2010|
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Well the bridge is definitely out for these two ill fated lovers (at left). Watching Monday’s latest installment of The Bachelorette with Ali and the remaining “mild five” was fairly uneventful. It was the last 20 some odd minutes that brought the heckle value up a notch or five.
The usual post rose ceremony champagne “high five” for Ali and the remaining men was preempted last night to show Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi crash and burn as they officially explained their break up to Chris Harrison. This was not the best publicity for Jake the “fame whore” (Vienna’s “pet name” for Jake).
In the end Jake sounded like he was channeling Ross Perot! “Can I finish? Can I finish?…Can I finish?” — Love may begin with roses, but so often it seems to end with tears. I’m just guessing, but I bet that Jillian, Ali and Tenley are glad they didn’t end up hitching their wagon to this guy’s star!
Fast forward to later that night when Jake had Chinese food for dinner…
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Posted in blogging, life, people, TV, tagged Ali Fedotowsky, Jake Pavelka, Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi, jake pavelka shirt off, jake pavelka shirtless, moods, The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, Vienna on June 23, 2010|
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Well, who’d a thunk it? Jake and Vienna broke up.
Yesterday was just another summer Tuesday… until news broke all over the interwebs reporting the “nasty” break up of the most recent Bachelor and his controversial pick for fiancée. Jake is saying only that “Sometimes love just isn’t enough in a relationship.”
Of course there are always plenty of rumors swirling about “who cheated on who,” or whether or not they ever actually kissed off camera (per Vienna’s step-mom). The reality of reality TV show love is that, in fact, many people consider the end of this “fairy tale romance” another one of those break-ups that is no surprise.
I wonder if Ali (who left Jake for her job) will have any better luck in this season’s offering of The Bachelorette.
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Posted in blogging, funny, humor, life, people, photos, random, search terms, TV, tagged Jake Pavelka, jake pavelka pics, jake pavelka shirt off, jake pavelka shirtless, moods on May 3, 2010|
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I have often been bewildered by the search terms that have led people to this blog. Some have been down right weird, others have just left me scratching my head. Here is the most recent search term anomaly dominating the stats on this blog currently:
Wow! I didn’t think this fella really made that much of an impression on America. Was it his milquetoast portrayal of the most recent season of The Bachelor? Was it is lackluster stroll on to, and quickly off of, Dancing with the Stars?
Who knows! But this is the first search term cluster that knocked the most sought after woman on the web off of the top searches list… and that was a top search that lasted for years!
Never let it be said that this blog didn’t deliver to readers what they were searching for… 😉 HA!! Not necessarily my cup ‘o tea… but hey, I can go without tea today. 😀
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Posted in Entertainment, life, people, TV, tagged Ali Fedotowsky, Jake, Jake Pavelka, Jason and Molly Wedding, Jason Mesnick, moods, TENLEY, The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, Vienna, Vienna Girardi on March 2, 2010|
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It is about all I can do to type “WTF were you thinking Jake?” But then again, I have said that countless times at the end of past seasons of The Bachelor or The Bachelorette. Why do I keep watching? I don’t know, except it is one of my silly little guilty pleasures to heckle this show!
After last week’s show I had even posted that Jake may not choose anyone–after last week’s preview showed Jake “pulling a Mesnick” (as Chris Harrison put it). But, alas. He did choose a fiancé–and he chose Vienna.
And if you remember one of my previous recap posts from this season you know why I opened the post with “WTF Jake?”–because out of the last two women standing… he did indeed have “The Lady and the Tramp” to choose from.
We shall see if the Jake and Vienna pairing is a match that is truly on the wings of love, or if that’s just what they’re selling us! HA! There are already reports that Jake is cheating…
Speaking of selling… Jason and Molly are getting married… and guess what? The wedding will air next week 0n ABC. Chris Harrison also announced that Ali Fedotowsky was to be the next Bachelorette.
Hey, no one ever promised us a rose garden! 😉
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Posted in Entertainment, humor, life, love, TV, tagged abc the bachelor, Chris Harrison, Gia, Gia Alliemand, Jake, Jake Pavelka, moods, owned, Rozlyn, Rozlyn Papa, Saint Lucia, TENLEY, TENLEY MOLZAHN and RYAN NATIVIDAD, The Bachelor, Vienna, Vienna Girardi on February 23, 2010|
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Last night was the salacious “The Bachelor- the women tell all.” It is always a fun hour or so of TV to heckle. They really dig to bring up as many tears and controversies as possible from the current season.
One of my favorite moments was when Chris Harrison brought Rozlyn out to the “hot seat” to ask her about her “inappropriate relationship with one of their staffers.” If last season’s villain was Wes, this season’s villain was Rozlyn. My favorite moment was when Chris was trying to get Rozlyn to fess up to her behind the scenes affair, and she was denying any “physical relationship” and answers his questions with a question “riddle me this Chris?” as part of her rebuttal. Really? Anyway, several of the other women in the house offered their varying accounts of Rozlyn and the “staffer” that each saw engaging in “inappropriate” physical contact. Oops! Oh well!
Then we get on with Chris talking with the two most recent cast offs from the season. First, Ali. She made it to the final four and then pulled an “Ed” and left the show so she wouldn’t lost her job. Viewers know that from last week’s episode that Ali asked Jake to come back to the show, but Jake said no. Then there was Gia. She was in the final three and on the fantasy dates. Evidently Jake let her go because she was not able to open up enough to him. I know we were perplexed last week as to why Jake kept Vienna and sent Gia packing. But then again, we have learned that we almost always pick different people than the Bachelor/Bachelorette choose.
Then we get the build up to next week’s finale. Who will Jake choose? Tenley, or Vienna?
Next week Jake will have one final date with each girl. And it appears that each girl will get to meet Jake’s family.
As is usually the formula, each woman will also have one last date with the shirtless Bachelor to convince him that she is the woman for him. Which woman will convince Jake that she is the one and only for him? I have stopped guessing at this point. I am never right about who the last woman/man standing will be! 😉
Then of course, there is the vague sort of grim picture they are already painting about the finale. Chris says “next week we hopefully find out which woman Jake will choose.”
If you have been watching the teaser previews for the “final rose ceremony”– the moment when supposedly The Bachelor asks one of the women to marry him– you may be getting the sense that no one will leave next week’s finale happy. It sure looks like all parties involved are in a pile of tears!
Who will Jake choose? Will he choose anyone? Chris asked Jake last night about his decision stating “I know you can’t tell us too much… but are you happy?” Usually they ask something like “are you in love?” or “did you find love?” But not last night. With sort of a grimace on his face (the one we have all come to recognize this season) Jake states “yes, I am happy.” Does he look happy here? Nope! We shall see what happens March 1st on “the most dramatic rose ceremony ever!” (Seems to me I have heard that one somewhere before.) Damn, you think that 3 people falling in love in a beautiful paradise would have happier looks on their faces! 🙂
And the final query of the night…
What was up with Chris Harrison swapping back and forth between vest and no vest? How long are they taping that hour long “tell all” fest?
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